Worst is to assume you've known a person completely. You can only best learn a way of dealing with someone. And changes too abrupt. Primary to discover your self, your desires; check your defenses.
It's very easy to love someone so beautifully ordinary, because you can create all the myth you want of her and marvel at the humanness of her. Because once someone is so seemingly perfect, you feel him or her too good to be true.
But inconvenient when you are surrounded by minds too narrow to fit a shapeless relationship in.
Who cannot figure the pleasure lies there shifting, only given to certain luck for capturing.